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Discussions - Nontraditional Sex - View Post - Archive
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6/24/2008 6:01:07 AM
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some answers
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>OK, here's my question: Were your two guys experienced in same-sex interaction?
*S (my lover) had never had a same-sex experience before he and I had our first 3some, but he had fantasized about it.... and he found that when we discussed his fantasy it was very arousing to both of us, so that encouraged him. It also encouraged him to know that I would enjoy watching.
Did they self-identify as bi?
*I don't know for sure, but I don't think either one of them really thought of themselves as "bi"... but maybe would have said they were "curious" or "open".
I don't think either one of them are interested in a specific M/M relationship, nor in having sex with each other without a woman being part of the mix. So I'm not sure if that affects the definition of "bi" or not. (It seems to me that in order to be defined as "bi" one would have to be willing to or interested in being alone in an encounter with someone of the same gender?)
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Or was the male-on-male aspect a first for one or both of them?
*A little background... D is a man who was also in a 3some with me and a previous lover. As far as I know, the only 3somes he's had have been with me and my lovers. So, I've been with him 3 times now as part of an MFM - once with a previous lover and twice with this lover.
My previous lover was not interested in any sort of direct M/M interaction, so when we had our 3some, the two of them only interacted sexually with me and not with each other. Everybody was fine with that.
When my current lover expressed an interest in a MFM experience, I contacted D and asked if he was interested in the possibility of a little more M/M contact, and he said he was "open" to it.
>Did they expect that aspect of the experience (or even hope for it/plan on it), or did it happen as a surprise to them?
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*Yes, they both went into this knowing it was a possibility depending on the chemistry between them. The first time was awkward for both of them, and it took awhile for them to work up the courage to actually DO anything to each other, but once they did it, they both found out they liked it. So this time, there was no hesitation. So far, they have only ventured into sucking each other. I don't know if they will go further than that or not. S is open to the possibility of anal play as well, but I'm not sure D is there yet. My guess is they will need to get more comfortable with each other before they can add more activities to the mix, but they both seem very open-minded and willing to try things I suggest.
It has been my experience that when we are all together, and I am aroused and encouraging them, it is easier for them to interact. If the atmosphere is sexually charged in general, then the level of heat allows them to do things that they might not do if I were not there with them. Does that make sense?
Everybody has their limits. It is just a matter of finding the comfort level that works for everyone involved. We are all very respectful of each other's limits and would never push anyone else to do something they were not comfortable with. I believe that the more we are together, the more the trust will build between them, and the boundaries will open up more. Time will tell if that proves to be true.
All I know is that I am enjoying experiencing this with them!
:)Ko
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