When she is with another guy and it's very arousing, do you then jerk off to orgasm? Or is part of the deal that she'll "do you" too so you get to get off? Or is it an experience you can enjoy without orgasm yourself?
I ask this because I can identify theoretically with the turn on of watching. But whenever I watch porn it's mainly to masturbate--unless I know I'm going to be having sex in the next 24 hours, in which case it's just as an "appetizer" and I refrain from masturbating so as to conserve my energy for being with Mrs. GS. (At north of 50, I need to think about such practical matters.) I don't see Mrs. GS and I getting involved with third parties, but if we did and I found it a turn on I know I'd end up either masturbating or wanting to have sex, too.
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