Hmmm... Well, I don't necessarily care if my wife's lover has a bigger cock than I do. But I do like it if, in some way, he's better looking, younger, or more manly than I am.
There are third things I like about this, though it's a bit odd to analyze them, because in the end it's just a feeling of excitement: first, I get turned on watching my wife get really excited, and the hotter the guy is, the more exited she's going to get.
Second, there's the thrill of danger -- of competition with another guy that I just might lose. I wrote more about this roller-coaster thrill in my long response to this thread.
Third, though I'm not attracted to men, I can get turned off by them. For instance, porn with ugly guys in it doesn't work for me. If the guy is an eyesore, it's distracting.
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